Wednesday May 15, 2013, 10:35 pm
I am sitting in the airport waiting to go to Rochester for
senior week, and it occurred to me that I never finished blogging about my
trip. So here it goes.
The day after I explored the local sights in Aurangabad I
decided to take a bus to the Ellora caves, instead of taking a taxi or a
rickshaw. The caves were about 30 km away, but it still took almost an hour and
a half to get there because the public bus experience outside of the big cities
in India is quite
an adventure.
| Ellora Cave Ceilings |
I first had to take a rickshaw four km to the bus station,
and I had the first truly kind auto driver I had ever met. It was a shared
rickshaw that usually cost either 10 or 20 rupees, but because I did not know
the area I just offered the driver 20. He smiled at me and handed 10 back,
informing me that 10 was the correct price. I have never had such an honest
driver. It blew my mind, but it was just a taste of the generosity that was to
come.
Getting on a bus in rural India takes more pushing and
shoving then getting to the center of ETHS homecoming, and not even football
players would be able to deal with the close contact. Everyone is trying to get
to the door and on the bus, making it impossible for people to get off the bus.
Kids and elderly do not get any special treatment, and when I stopped to let a
crying child get to his mother I suddenly found myself at the end of the crowd
because I had let down my guard. However, after you fight your way into the bus
everything calms down and people are incredibly polite. Strangers squeeze three
people into two-person seat, and the women next to me continuously offered me
food. It was a lovely ride though the countryside and the driver was kind
enough to tell me when to get off.
| Back Paths of Ellora |
When I entered the caves I was bombarded by people
attempting to sell me books and give me tours, but I walked right past them. One
caught up to me and started out by telling me that he did not want any money.
At that I stopped to talk. He explained to me that he was a guide, but it
was not tourist season, and he could see I was not a stupid traveler. Since he was
not going to make any money that day anyway he wanted to show me the best path
to see the caves based on the position of the sun. I agreed and we were off.
Instead of walking the two kilometers down the road to caves
he said I should start at we climbed over the mountain, stopping at the caves
we came to on the way. Sadek, the guide, was so used to the paths and the
mountain that he was able to run in flip flops over the rocks. I had lost my
Tims the night before, so I was in sandals, and I was not so successful. I had
a few tumbles, but ended up with only one bad cut and a small rip in my pants.
It was not a big deal, but quite comedic. With Sadek I was able to see and understand
things about the caves I would not have otherwise, and it was so much fun. He
loved taking pictures so I gave him my camera, and he took about a million.
| Three story cave |
At the end of the caves path he left me to work my way back,
but in classic Indian style he asked me to come to his family shop when I was
done with the caves. Because he had been so nice to me I decided I would go, so
when I was done with the caves I met up with him and we went across the street.
I started looking at shawls with the shawl man, Riaz, and we struck up an
amazing conversation. An hour later I was still in the store, no longer looking
at scarves, and Sadek and Riaz convinced me to change the train tickets I had
to go back to Mumbi that night for the two days later and stick around Ellora.
They wanted to show me their small village the way they knew it. Agreeing to
stay was very out of character for me, but it felt right at the time, and the
next thing I knew I was in a rickshaw with Wasim the rickshaw driver, who would
become a great friend over the next two days.
We went back to Arangabad, picked up my stuff from the
hotel, changed my train ticket, and went back to Ellora, where they put me in
the family hotel. I have never been anyplace so gross in my life. The sheets
were white I could easily see the red bed bugs all over the bed. The water did
not work in the sink, and the toilet did not flush. There were a master on the
lock on the door, but it took about five minutes to close. But there was a fan
and I had no place else to go, so I sucked it up, laid down some of my own
shawls over the sheets and went to bed.
| Shiva Temple in Ellora |
At 9:00 the next morning Sadek showed up at my door. The
Ellora caves were closed for tourists on Tuesday so the whole village was more
or less on a day off. We had breakfast at a friend’s restaurant and then we
walked father into the village to one of the most beautiful Shiva Temples I
have ever seen. It was 8 shrines separately
constructed and placed in a perfect square about half way down a flight of
stairs. You could hear the birds and the sun was shining. The temple took my
breath away, and for that reason alone I am glad that I stayed. We saw a few
other temples that morning, and then headed back for lunch with Wasim the
rickshaw driver.
Village life is slow, and Tuesday acts as Ellora’s weekend,
so I spent the afternoon reading and hanging out. At about five I met up with
Riaz, and Wasim took us to the base of the mountain where there was a small but
beautiful Jain temple about half way up. We climbed up the 200 winding steps
and watched the sunset in silence, as well as watching a few other worshipers
struggle their way up the mountain. One of these groups of worshipers were teachers
from the local Jain school, and we started talking. They were a hilarious
bunch, and thought I was even funnier, so we spent quite a while chatting about
marriage, America, math, and family structures.
| Ajanta Caves |
While I was with Wasim I got a call that the train I was
supposed to take back to Mumbi the next day was completely full, and I could
not get back until an 11:30pm train. That meant I had another whole day in the
area with nothing to do. Thank god I was with Wasim when I got this call,
because the next thing I knew he was going to take me in his rickshaw the 120km,
3 hour, trip to the Ajanta Caves that I thought I was going to miss.
The Ajanta caves were nice, but it was the six hours I spent
in Wasim’s rickshaw that was the highlight of my day that day. The sun was hot,
but the wind was cool, and we were driving through the real countryside. The
only structures were mud huts, and crops were green all over the place. There
was little rain this year, so everyone was telling me about how beautiful it
was normally, but I was impressed with what I saw. On the way back we
were able to watch the sunset over the fields.
After a rooftop dinner back in Ellora with Riaz and Wasim over
my hotel I jumped back in Wasim’s rickshaw and went to the train station to go
back to Mumbai, a far less stressful event then coming to Ellora.
| From right: Sadek, Wasim, me, Travel Agent |
This was not how I expected to spent four full days, but I
went with my gut, and I experienced a more genuine version of India then I
could have seeing the big tourist sights in Mumbai. I made relationships and
friends, and for once was able to truly understand the generosity both in time
and money of Indians who are not trying to rip you off.
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